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Funeral live stream - new link
Some issues with the previous link, use this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQ6eqfpwck8
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Jul 26, 20241 min read
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Funeral live stream
Please use the following link to view a live stream of Robin's funeral: https://www.youtube.com/live/HP-1ta7VQFI?si=FI1npailZQs4_UO0...
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Jul 26, 20241 min read
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Journey's end
Dykstra, Robin. Passed on peacefully in his sleep in the early morning of the 23rd of July 2024 at the age of 58 in the tranquil setting...
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Jul 23, 20241 min read
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Heartbreaking news
The cautious hope of treatment we received last week has been dashed and we are left reeling and devastated. The night before treatment...
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Jul 4, 20242 min read
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Don’t Look Down
Here we go again. This roller coaster we are all on, has not, as it turns out, run out of twists yet. Just as we thought we were nearing...
Haidee Gao
Jun 28, 20241 min read
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A hard pill to swallow
It’s been almost 3 weeks since coming home from hospital and at this stage the healing process is going well but it’s still going to take...
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Jun 16, 20242 min read
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Home at Last
Another brief update to let you know that Robin is home from his two and a half weeks in hospital. The recovery process was initially...
Haidee Gao
May 31, 20241 min read
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Post Surgery
This is just a brief update on how things are going. Robin had abdominal surgery yesterday to remove a section of his bowel. The surgery...
Haidee Gao
May 17, 20241 min read
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Life in Limbo
Thank you, Haidee, for another beautifully written blog. Writing has always been a struggle for me which is why I never churned out many...
Haidee Gao
May 14, 20243 min read
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Living in the Moment
What a week it’s been (last week, that is)! Celebrating Dad’s 58th birthday with a relaxing cruise to the hot pools on lake Rotoiti, then...
Haidee Gao
May 3, 20243 min read
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New Developments
It’s been about a year since my first diagnosis and, unfortunately, I haven’t improved as much as I would have hoped. My physical and...
Haidee Gao
Apr 14, 20242 min read
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Home, Sweet Home
Great news; Dad is back home again! And has made it through his first cancer-related hospital stay - a new milestone. A cause for the...
Haidee Gao
Mar 25, 20241 min read
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Hospital Blues
Just a quick update: Dad's been feeling more unwell over the past week, with intermittent high fevers and stomach upset. Last night he...
Haidee Gao
Mar 23, 20241 min read
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Cautiously Optimistic
Summer is nearly over, and once again we find ourselves in the waiting room of dad's oncologist's office, a now familiar place, nervously...
Haidee Gao
Feb 23, 20242 min read
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Dear Dad
Dad, you have always been a man of science, and your life is ruled by evidence-based decisions and logic. This is, of course, a...
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Dec 15, 20233 min read
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Scanxiety Strikes Again
It's been over six weeks since Dad started chemotherapy treatment, which means it's time for his next CT scan (scheduled for tomorrow)....
Haidee Gao
Dec 11, 20232 min read
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Dom P with a Side of Steroids
Last week, Dad received the first of his chemotherapy treatments. As luck had it, this coincided with the week mum had to go down to...
Haidee Gao
Nov 4, 20232 min read
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Not What We Hoped For
update by Robin Ten days ago I had my appointment with the oncologist. I was very hopeful and gladly exclaimed to my oncologist that I...
Haidee Gao
Oct 22, 20233 min read
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Scanxiety
We are back in the waiting place and it’s not an easy place to be. Last Friday, Robin had the next CT scan and we are again awaiting the...
Haidee Gao
Oct 9, 20233 min read
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A brief update
This morning, I accompanied my parents to Dad's appointment with his oncologist. Having just had a CT scan the week before, this would be...
Haidee Gao
Aug 31, 20232 min read
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